Attitude

Entering your Villian Era

Entering your Villian Era

Entering your Villian Era is essential for all recovering people pleasers. This is not just parents, it is anyone who will always put others' needs above their own, to the point of self-destruction and self-sabotage. Remember, you are someone too and you deserve to have your needs met too. 

We are people pleasers for various reasons but we aren’t here to discuss why you are a people pleaser, we are ready to enter into a new era of self-empowerment. 

So my wonderful friend, let's talk about some of the cornerstones of the Villian Era and what you need to consider before announcing to the world on social media that this is your villain era and you will no longer be available to be taken advantage of.  

How To Deal With Body Envy

How To Deal With Body Envy

Body Envy is a growing problem in our society. We see all these beautiful photoshopped impossible bodies in the media everyday and we can’t help but compare them to our own. With thousands of likes and society all going O M G Look how beautiful you are. Us normals with our beautiful bodies, can’t help but feel a little down. We can’t change society or other people, but we can change how we deal with it.

Judgement

Judgement

Does negatively judging someone make you a bad person?

Short answer, no. It doesn’t. As humans, we judge people, we are biologically programmed to do that, it's a survival instinct. Knowing that, I have never tried to be too hard on myself when I find myself judging someone because, we all judge and I know that is what causes a lot of mental health issues like paranoia and anxiety, you judge, therefore, you will judged.