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Jade The Introvert!

Jade The Introvert!

Jade the introverts adventures through friendship and moving forward to create her dream life!

I want to talk to you about a recently change in my life. This is overtly obvious but I am a massive introvert, give me a book and a cabin and I am happy for years (as long as it was warm). For the past few years I have been pushing out of my shell to make new friends and expand my social circle outside of the ghost of my cat. I was making really good progress (as a traveler, I never made long term friends because they would be gone the next day so to make real connections with people was a big deal).

An Open Letter About Instagram Bullshirt!

An Open Letter About Instagram Bullshirt!

Hi squad, 

I want to talk more about Instagram bullshit and culture and the comparison problems we all have. I try to keep my channel all about personal growth and healing and becoming happy but I still get bombarded with negativity and not from my feeds, I get to watch all of my amazing squad everyday be grateful for things and achieve goals and I love it all. But I also suffer from Instagram anxiety and its because I get Direct Ad targets. I used to love them, the algorithm knows exactly what type of shoes I like so shopping was so easy. But at the moment, I get BOMBARDED with ads saying things like: 

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Is Competition Really Healthy?

Is Competition Really Healthy?

Is a competitive spirit actually hindering our growth? Affecting our self love? Ruining our mental health? Competition has always been good for pushing us to be the best versions of ourselves. Pushes us outside of our comfort zones. But how can it secretly been also ruining our mental health and making us feel unworthy and undervalued?

Judgement

Judgement

Does negatively judging someone make you a bad person?

Short answer, no. It doesn’t. As humans, we judge people, we are biologically programmed to do that, it's a survival instinct. Knowing that, I have never tried to be too hard on myself when I find myself judging someone because, we all judge and I know that is what causes a lot of mental health issues like paranoia and anxiety, you judge, therefore, you will judged.